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		<title>Comment on We thank God for the time he was with us&#8230; by Deborah J. Carrelli</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/05/11/we-thank-god-for-the-time-he-was-with-us/#comment-1906</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Deborah J. Carrelli]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 16:47:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you today, God bless , comfort and peace for you in the coming days.
Deb Carrelli and Family]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you today, God bless , comfort and peace for you in the coming days.<br />
Deb Carrelli and Family</p>
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		<title>Comment on We thank God for the time he was with us&#8230; by Danny Ball</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/05/11/we-thank-god-for-the-time-he-was-with-us/#comment-1901</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Danny Ball]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 13:36:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Ball family would like to offer our deepest condolences, our oldest daughter is turning 36 today and I don&#039;t know how I would handle anything so devastating without Gods hand on my family and my life. Our prayers are with you today and always. 

God Bless you and your family 
Danny, Connie and Danielle]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Ball family would like to offer our deepest condolences, our oldest daughter is turning 36 today and I don&#8217;t know how I would handle anything so devastating without Gods hand on my family and my life. Our prayers are with you today and always. </p>
<p>God Bless you and your family<br />
Danny, Connie and Danielle</p>
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		<title>Comment on T.I.P. (Thought In Practice) of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/03/29/t-i-p-thought-in-practice-of-the-day-31/#comment-1528</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 01:09:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Angela, thank you for reblogging the TIP of the day, I hope that it adds value to you and your followers. Blessings, Leo]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angela, thank you for reblogging the TIP of the day, I hope that it adds value to you and your followers. Blessings, Leo</p>
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		<title>Comment on T.I.P. (Thought In Practice) of the Day by angelasoelzerragosa</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/03/29/t-i-p-thought-in-practice-of-the-day-31/#comment-1518</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[angelasoelzerragosa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 14:07:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reblogged this on &lt;a href=&quot;http://mindfulmod.com/2012/03/29/1353/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;MINDFUL-MOD&lt;/a&gt;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reblogged this on <a href="http://mindfulmod.com/2012/03/29/1353/" rel="nofollow">MINDFUL-MOD</a>.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/02/14/question-of-the-day-121/#comment-932</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 16:05:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agree forgiveness is yours to give or not to give. So why not bless yourself by giving it. God loves a tender and open heart, to give His forgiveness and blessings to.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree forgiveness is yours to give or not to give. So why not bless yourself by giving it. God loves a tender and open heart, to give His forgiveness and blessings to.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Candy</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/02/14/question-of-the-day-121/#comment-931</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Candy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 15:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think forgiving someone is the hugest gift that you can give to yourself!  Just remember the person you are forgiving may not be asking for it but it&#039;s important for you to forgive anyway!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think forgiving someone is the hugest gift that you can give to yourself!  Just remember the person you are forgiving may not be asking for it but it&#8217;s important for you to forgive anyway!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Size Does Matter Regarding Former Strip Club by Candy</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/01/21/size-does-matter-regarding-former-strip-club/#comment-718</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Candy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 18:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So proud that you listened to God and went to help the Haitian church as they take over the strip club.  Way to go God!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So proud that you listened to God and went to help the Haitian church as they take over the strip club.  Way to go God!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/01/05/question-of-the-day-81/#comment-602</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 19:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Danny, thank you for your thoughts and wisdom. Perhaps as we pass through life we start to understand the value of possessing a teachable spirit, which opens our heart and our head to continuous learning. We only know it all in our late teens.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Danny, thank you for your thoughts and wisdom. Perhaps as we pass through life we start to understand the value of possessing a teachable spirit, which opens our heart and our head to continuous learning. We only know it all in our late teens.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Danny Ball</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2012/01/05/question-of-the-day-81/#comment-601</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Danny Ball]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 17:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s funny how our interpretation of constructive criticism changes as we grow older, both in how we receive it and how we deliver it. As God carries us through life he hones us through our experiences with family, friends, bosses, employees and our experiences within the church body. I believe he uses these life experiences to help understand mans constructive criticisms so we can better understand the lessons we are to learn from His word in the Bible. Which help us to bring more of his children into his light.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s funny how our interpretation of constructive criticism changes as we grow older, both in how we receive it and how we deliver it. As God carries us through life he hones us through our experiences with family, friends, bosses, employees and our experiences within the church body. I believe he uses these life experiences to help understand mans constructive criticisms so we can better understand the lessons we are to learn from His word in the Bible. Which help us to bring more of his children into his light.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Board of Directors by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/board-of-directors-2/#comment-575</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 00:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you Alan, I&#039;m sure it brought a smile or two to you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Alan, I&#8217;m sure it brought a smile or two to you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Board of Directors by Alan Mentser</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/board-of-directors-2/#comment-574</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alan Mentser]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 23:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great Advise Leo!!  Keep up the great work.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Advise Leo!!  Keep up the great work.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Board of Directors by So You Want to Start a Nonprofit Organization! &#171; Leo Abdella.com</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/board-of-directors-2/#comment-573</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[So You Want to Start a Nonprofit Organization! &#171; Leo Abdella.com]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 17:10:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Iraida Loehrig</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/17/question-of-the-day-66/#comment-513</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iraida Loehrig]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 20:26:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Developing people is God&#039;s favorite thing to do and He will appoint us in the positions we desire when we seek Him first as our &quot;Boss&quot;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Developing people is God&#8217;s favorite thing to do and He will appoint us in the positions we desire when we seek Him first as our &#8220;Boss&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-483</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 15:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[John, thank you for the very kind note. I know you are a man that truly values family, you are a great mentor and friend. Blessings to you and yours.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, thank you for the very kind note. I know you are a man that truly values family, you are a great mentor and friend. Blessings to you and yours.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by John Boswell</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-479</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John Boswell]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 12:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Congratulations Leo,  I know you are very, very happy and I am happy with you.  What a beautiful baby.....I&#039;m a Dad and a Grand Dad for young ones and enjoy the Grand Babies in a very wonderful way....You are a blessed man Leo....
Your Friend,   John B.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations Leo,  I know you are very, very happy and I am happy with you.  What a beautiful baby&#8230;..I&#8217;m a Dad and a Grand Dad for young ones and enjoy the Grand Babies in a very wonderful way&#8230;.You are a blessed man Leo&#8230;.<br />
Your Friend,   John B.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-467</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 01:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kari nice to hear from you and I do remember your grandfather being called that, now that you say it. Blessings to you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kari nice to hear from you and I do remember your grandfather being called that, now that you say it. Blessings to you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by Kari</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-465</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kari]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 23:20:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Congrats &quot;Poppi&quot; (we used to call my mom&#039;s dad that)!! Noraa is absolutely beautiful! Love &amp; miss you guys! xo]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats &#8220;Poppi&#8221; (we used to call my mom&#8217;s dad that)!! Noraa is absolutely beautiful! Love &amp; miss you guys! xo</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-463</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 14:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you we are enjoying it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you we are enjoying it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by Steve Jubb</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-461</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve Jubb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 13:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leo:  congrats.  Being a grandparent is great.  Best to everyone!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leo:  congrats.  Being a grandparent is great.  Best to everyone!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-457</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 03:38:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It really is great, having children, is amazing, but when your children have children it is truly amazing. It also makes you realize that you are getting old!  My friend John Maxwell says it this way, &quot; Grand Children are God&#039;s blessing for not killing your kids&quot;. 

Thanks you for the note.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It really is great, having children, is amazing, but when your children have children it is truly amazing. It also makes you realize that you are getting old!  My friend John Maxwell says it this way, &#8221; Grand Children are God&#8217;s blessing for not killing your kids&#8221;. </p>
<p>Thanks you for the note.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Child Was Born by Danny Ball</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/12/12/a-child-was-born/#comment-456</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Danny Ball]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 03:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Congrats Leo welcome to grandpadom I am sure she already has you wrapped around her little finger. Isn&#039;t it a great feeling?

Danny]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats Leo welcome to grandpadom I am sure she already has you wrapped around her little finger. Isn&#8217;t it a great feeling?</p>
<p>Danny</p>
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		<title>Comment on HUMILITY ~ November 10th, 2011 by If You Missed The Show, So Did We! &#171; Leo Abdella.com</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/11/18/humility-november-10th-2011/#comment-355</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[If You Missed The Show, So Did We! &#171; Leo Abdella.com]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:44:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] For the newly recorded show please LISTEN to PAST SHOWS. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Steve Jubb</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/11/16/question-of-the-day-58/#comment-350</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve Jubb]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 15:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The greatest motivation I have for doing something, especially if it is outside the norm, is the fulfillment it provides not only for myself but more importantly to others that are impacted by those actions.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The greatest motivation I have for doing something, especially if it is outside the norm, is the fulfillment it provides not only for myself but more importantly to others that are impacted by those actions.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Steve Schaefer</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/11/06/question-of-the-day-48/#comment-308</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve Schaefer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 15:11:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leo,

Jesus teaches us in Matthew 11:29 Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart and you will find rest for your soul.

We carry the yoke (teaching) of the world and we fall into the traps of life and we are burdened, we find ourselves getting burned out. I hear from my leaders all the time how can I find balance.  We don&#039;t take rest in the Lord so we don&#039;t evaluate our life experiences and repeat the mistakes.  Living is learning and when the teacher is of the world we can never be satisfied, but when we take on the yoke of Christ (His teaching) we can evaluate from a pure heart. 

Our issues don&#039;t go away but the way we see them open the door to finding solutions-solutions that include humbling our self and forgiving while seeking to understand.  Our understandings come from a source and not resources.  When our source is our Heavenly Father our hearts will be right, but when our choice is the resources of this world we fall short with harden hearts.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leo,</p>
<p>Jesus teaches us in Matthew 11:29 Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart and you will find rest for your soul.</p>
<p>We carry the yoke (teaching) of the world and we fall into the traps of life and we are burdened, we find ourselves getting burned out. I hear from my leaders all the time how can I find balance.  We don&#8217;t take rest in the Lord so we don&#8217;t evaluate our life experiences and repeat the mistakes.  Living is learning and when the teacher is of the world we can never be satisfied, but when we take on the yoke of Christ (His teaching) we can evaluate from a pure heart. </p>
<p>Our issues don&#8217;t go away but the way we see them open the door to finding solutions-solutions that include humbling our self and forgiving while seeking to understand.  Our understandings come from a source and not resources.  When our source is our Heavenly Father our hearts will be right, but when our choice is the resources of this world we fall short with harden hearts.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/31/question-of-the-day-42/#comment-283</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 14:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Apostle Paul, speaking to the Corinthians, put it quite simply by saying, men are always seeking for greater wisdom, but they usually bypass the Ultimate Source of wisdom. God&#039;s word clearly point this direction. &quot;The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and knowledge.&quot;

I love your opening statement.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Apostle Paul, speaking to the Corinthians, put it quite simply by saying, men are always seeking for greater wisdom, but they usually bypass the Ultimate Source of wisdom. God&#8217;s word clearly point this direction. &#8220;The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and knowledge.&#8221;</p>
<p>I love your opening statement.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Steve Schaefer</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/31/question-of-the-day-42/#comment-282</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve Schaefer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 13:52:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our subconscious mind does not have the ability to reject or rationalize any thought or notion.  As we feed our subconscious, it goes to work to solve, support and create results. 
 
When I look at 1 Corinthians 2:11-16 For who knows a person’s thoughts except their own spirit within them? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. 12 What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us. 13 This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words 14 The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit. 15 The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject to merely human judgments.

Our thoughts and meditation on the word will bring us treasure, it will liberate us as our thoughts are now channeled to the source.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our subconscious mind does not have the ability to reject or rationalize any thought or notion.  As we feed our subconscious, it goes to work to solve, support and create results. </p>
<p>When I look at 1 Corinthians 2:11-16 For who knows a person’s thoughts except their own spirit within them? In the same way no one knows the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. 12 What we have received is not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may understand what God has freely given us. 13 This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, explaining spiritual realities with Spirit-taught words 14 The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit. 15 The person with the Spirit makes judgments about all things, but such a person is not subject to merely human judgments.</p>
<p>Our thoughts and meditation on the word will bring us treasure, it will liberate us as our thoughts are now channeled to the source.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/25/question-of-the-day-37/#comment-262</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 01:39:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We are all challenged to line up our convictions and beliefs to our actions. Accountability and transparency is the best way to have external controls. Taking a stand always takes risks and has associated costs and benefits.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are all challenged to line up our convictions and beliefs to our actions. Accountability and transparency is the best way to have external controls. Taking a stand always takes risks and has associated costs and benefits.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Alex Stevens</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/25/question-of-the-day-37/#comment-258</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alex Stevens]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 18:37:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I will say that in times like this, it is an opportunity to discover who your true friends are.  If someone does stand with you out friendship, that person should be valued as a true friend.  Although if they don&#039;t stand with you there&#039;s no need for resentment.  Maybe next time they will.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will say that in times like this, it is an opportunity to discover who your true friends are.  If someone does stand with you out friendship, that person should be valued as a true friend.  Although if they don&#8217;t stand with you there&#8217;s no need for resentment.  Maybe next time they will.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Alex Stevens</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/25/question-of-the-day-37/#comment-257</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alex Stevens]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 18:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Interesting post, Leo.  &quot;Courage is standing with someone who is standing alone&quot;.  I believe the real courage is with the one standing alone based on a conviction or situation.  What motivates others to stand with that person could be based on friendship, trust, sympathy, concern or even self interests.  It does take courage to stand with that person, but there are other motivating factors.  Real courage is standing up for your beliefs even if no one else will stand with you.  And if you truly believe in your position through prayer and discernment, your fears will be mitigated.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting post, Leo.  &#8220;Courage is standing with someone who is standing alone&#8221;.  I believe the real courage is with the one standing alone based on a conviction or situation.  What motivates others to stand with that person could be based on friendship, trust, sympathy, concern or even self interests.  It does take courage to stand with that person, but there are other motivating factors.  Real courage is standing up for your beliefs even if no one else will stand with you.  And if you truly believe in your position through prayer and discernment, your fears will be mitigated.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Iraida Loehrig</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/19/question-of-the-day-31/#comment-248</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iraida Loehrig]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 15:27:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My top three tools in remaining positive are simple.  First, I make a conscience decison to serve God. Second, I do what is required of me to do in order to serve God and that is act justly, be kind, and walk humbly with Him.  Third, I am in His word daily.  When I read about all the promises He has for me I get excited and my heart is filled with joy and peace beyond any comprehension.  I love to read God&#039;s messages from fellow Christians and there is one that was said, &quot;Exercise daily.... Walk with the Lord!  This I use as a mental state of mind.  It&#039;s one of the most healthiest ways to live.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My top three tools in remaining positive are simple.  First, I make a conscience decison to serve God. Second, I do what is required of me to do in order to serve God and that is act justly, be kind, and walk humbly with Him.  Third, I am in His word daily.  When I read about all the promises He has for me I get excited and my heart is filled with joy and peace beyond any comprehension.  I love to read God&#8217;s messages from fellow Christians and there is one that was said, &#8220;Exercise daily&#8230;. Walk with the Lord!  This I use as a mental state of mind.  It&#8217;s one of the most healthiest ways to live.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/21/question-of-the-day-33/#comment-240</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 14:51:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That is a terrific illustration, the lion like most of us think we have the strength to have courage on our own, when in reality without a purpose or cause that is in check with our core values, we will not truly leave our comfort zone. Even if that comfort zone is a dysfunctional or not healthy situation. The battle begins in our mind and heart.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is a terrific illustration, the lion like most of us think we have the strength to have courage on our own, when in reality without a purpose or cause that is in check with our core values, we will not truly leave our comfort zone. Even if that comfort zone is a dysfunctional or not healthy situation. The battle begins in our mind and heart.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Iraida Loehrig</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/21/question-of-the-day-33/#comment-237</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iraida Loehrig]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 03:13:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Courage?  First thing that came to my mind was the lion from the Wizard of Oz!  As powerful and bold the lion thought he was, he was also fearful to step out alone.  That sounds like many people today.  That next step people need to take is reach out to others, just like the lion did.  We need each other to build up that inner strength that we were designed to have.  Iron sharpens iron, as the Lord so simply puts it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Courage?  First thing that came to my mind was the lion from the Wizard of Oz!  As powerful and bold the lion thought he was, he was also fearful to step out alone.  That sounds like many people today.  That next step people need to take is reach out to others, just like the lion did.  We need each other to build up that inner strength that we were designed to have.  Iron sharpens iron, as the Lord so simply puts it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/09/question-of-the-day-21/#comment-227</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 03:25:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just found an interesting follow up to our Question of The Day. 

Charity And Its Discontents: Politics And Philanthropy On The Presidential Stage 
Posted: 10/21/11 08:16 AM ET Huffington Post Daily Brief

WASHINGTON -- Charity is at once a virtue, a wedge, a symbol and a prism. For those who believe in limited government, charity is the answer to the riddle at the heart of free-market conservatism: What about the poor? The needy? The ones left behind?

The Huffington Post examined each of the contenders for the White House through the lens of their charitable efforts. A close look reveals telling patterns.

The 2012 Republican candidates for president have a mixed record of charitable giving. Little is known about Michele Bachmann, Ron Paul or Rick Santorum, due to a dearth of public records and campaign disclosures. Texas Gov. Rick Perry released his income tax returns, which reveal that his donations to charity rose in tandem with his political influence. Mitt Romney and Newt Gingrich both spent years building large private foundations to advance their charitable and political goals. Herman Cain, on the other hand, refuses to blend politics with charity. Last, there is Jon Huntsman, Jr., the son of a great philanthropist, for whom friends say the approach to charity never wavers amid the ups and downs of politics.

On the Democratic side, President Obama and Vice President Biden have each publicly disclosed 10 years&#039; worth of income tax returns, which reveal a surprising disparity between the two men.
There&#039;s an old stereotype about charity and politics that conservative voters are less concerned with whether or not politicians donate to charity than liberals. Yet a robust, private charity is central to the conservative world view, which means that charitable giving may end up being more important to Republicans
.
A comprehensive 2008 study revealed that participants who identified as conservatives reported giving significantly more of their average household incomes to charity than participants who identified as liberals. For progressives, society is made better by the collective action of a democratic people, expressed through their government. For conservatives, social ills ought to be relieved not by government, but by individuals acting on their own or through private charities. It stands to reason, then, that Republicans would naturally display more interest in the 2012 candidates&#039; charitable giving records than Democrats. They are also more likely to place a premium on candidates with strong records of giving to charity.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just found an interesting follow up to our Question of The Day. </p>
<p>Charity And Its Discontents: Politics And Philanthropy On The Presidential Stage<br />
Posted: 10/21/11 08:16 AM ET Huffington Post Daily Brief</p>
<p>WASHINGTON &#8212; Charity is at once a virtue, a wedge, a symbol and a prism. For those who believe in limited government, charity is the answer to the riddle at the heart of free-market conservatism: What about the poor? The needy? The ones left behind?</p>
<p>The Huffington Post examined each of the contenders for the White House through the lens of their charitable efforts. A close look reveals telling patterns.</p>
<p>The 2012 Republican candidates for president have a mixed record of charitable giving. Little is known about Michele Bachmann, Ron Paul or Rick Santorum, due to a dearth of public records and campaign disclosures. Texas Gov. Rick Perry released his income tax returns, which reveal that his donations to charity rose in tandem with his political influence. Mitt Romney and Newt Gingrich both spent years building large private foundations to advance their charitable and political goals. Herman Cain, on the other hand, refuses to blend politics with charity. Last, there is Jon Huntsman, Jr., the son of a great philanthropist, for whom friends say the approach to charity never wavers amid the ups and downs of politics.</p>
<p>On the Democratic side, President Obama and Vice President Biden have each publicly disclosed 10 years&#8217; worth of income tax returns, which reveal a surprising disparity between the two men.<br />
There&#8217;s an old stereotype about charity and politics that conservative voters are less concerned with whether or not politicians donate to charity than liberals. Yet a robust, private charity is central to the conservative world view, which means that charitable giving may end up being more important to Republicans<br />
.<br />
A comprehensive 2008 study revealed that participants who identified as conservatives reported giving significantly more of their average household incomes to charity than participants who identified as liberals. For progressives, society is made better by the collective action of a democratic people, expressed through their government. For conservatives, social ills ought to be relieved not by government, but by individuals acting on their own or through private charities. It stands to reason, then, that Republicans would naturally display more interest in the 2012 candidates&#8217; charitable giving records than Democrats. They are also more likely to place a premium on candidates with strong records of giving to charity.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/21/question-of-the-day-33/#comment-226</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 02:35:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Steve very good answer, my simple interpretation: once committed, hit the beach and burn the boats!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve very good answer, my simple interpretation: once committed, hit the beach and burn the boats!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Steve Schaefer</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/21/question-of-the-day-33/#comment-222</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Steve Schaefer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 17:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Courage alone is only a dream, courage needs an activator, an ignition, a faith in one&#039;s self.  The most compelling examples of courage comes from people that are will to suspend the knowledge and understanding of how a situation&#039;s produces an outcome. If we know how the action will play out, are we really courageous or just simple experienced.  So the courageous person takes a first step of action to bring an emotion into life. That first step that says I am committed to my convictions. The courage to know that my inward strength will show outbound significance.

Emotion is the complex psychophysiological experience of an individual&#039;s state of mind as interacting with biochemical (internal) and environmental (external) influences...from  Wikipedia. 

Highest regards,
Steve Schaefer]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Courage alone is only a dream, courage needs an activator, an ignition, a faith in one&#8217;s self.  The most compelling examples of courage comes from people that are will to suspend the knowledge and understanding of how a situation&#8217;s produces an outcome. If we know how the action will play out, are we really courageous or just simple experienced.  So the courageous person takes a first step of action to bring an emotion into life. That first step that says I am committed to my convictions. The courage to know that my inward strength will show outbound significance.</p>
<p>Emotion is the complex psychophysiological experience of an individual&#8217;s state of mind as interacting with biochemical (internal) and environmental (external) influences&#8230;from  Wikipedia. </p>
<p>Highest regards,<br />
Steve Schaefer</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Lucy Barrera Louis</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/20/question-of-the-day-32/#comment-214</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lucy Barrera Louis]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 18:17:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Too often, we run from challenges. Yet the people we love to read about in the Bible are
Witnesses, because they battled challenges. They experienced their challenges with a power 
released through their brokenness in a strategy
given to them by God. As we live our lives of integrity through godly repentance and brokeness, we will embrace God&#039;s power and a positive attitude for our daily lives, enabling us to finish the race with God&#039;s strength, courage and patience.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Too often, we run from challenges. Yet the people we love to read about in the Bible are<br />
Witnesses, because they battled challenges. They experienced their challenges with a power<br />
released through their brokenness in a strategy<br />
given to them by God. As we live our lives of integrity through godly repentance and brokeness, we will embrace God&#8217;s power and a positive attitude for our daily lives, enabling us to finish the race with God&#8217;s strength, courage and patience.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Iraida Loehrig</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/18/question-of-the-day-30/#comment-206</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iraida Loehrig]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 02:33:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leo, yes I do believe having the right attitude will allow for you to take charge of your mind.  2Cor. 10:5 says &quot;Bring every thought captive to the obedience of Christ&quot; .It is through His word that we will find peace and joy in our hearts.  His word will transform us when we choose His thoughts and plans for our lives and not ours.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leo, yes I do believe having the right attitude will allow for you to take charge of your mind.  2Cor. 10:5 says &#8220;Bring every thought captive to the obedience of Christ&#8221; .It is through His word that we will find peace and joy in our hearts.  His word will transform us when we choose His thoughts and plans for our lives and not ours.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/15/question-of-the-day-27/#comment-186</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 22:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Positive attitude is the end result of the discipline we keep. It demands courage and persistence to create a positive disposition. As Dr. John Maxwell says &quot;our attitude determines our altitude in life&quot;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Positive attitude is the end result of the discipline we keep. It demands courage and persistence to create a positive disposition. As Dr. John Maxwell says &#8220;our attitude determines our altitude in life&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Lucy Barrera Louis</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/15/question-of-the-day-27/#comment-181</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lucy Barrera Louis]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 16:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[People and circumstances are attracted to us to help us surrender and evolve to a higher level, if we resist what is, then we are not trusting in God. The choice is ours, how we respond if we
react in fear, anger or resistance. We attract the
same vibrational experiences if we respond in love, trust and with a positive attitude.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People and circumstances are attracted to us to help us surrender and evolve to a higher level, if we resist what is, then we are not trusting in God. The choice is ours, how we respond if we<br />
react in fear, anger or resistance. We attract the<br />
same vibrational experiences if we respond in love, trust and with a positive attitude.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/11/question-of-the-day-23/#comment-164</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 14:32:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alex as the saying goes, &quot;our performance of the past is a good indicator of the future&quot;.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex as the saying goes, &#8220;our performance of the past is a good indicator of the future&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Alex Stevens</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/11/question-of-the-day-23/#comment-163</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alex Stevens]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 14:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#039;re welcome, Leo.  Sorry this was such a long one but it is an issue of which I have some strong feelings, aka core values.  

Thank you for the compliment to my son.  At 15, I believe he &quot;gets it&quot;.  But I will be on guard for the next few years knowing that the enemy will be looking for opportunities.  Amen.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re welcome, Leo.  Sorry this was such a long one but it is an issue of which I have some strong feelings, aka core values.  </p>
<p>Thank you for the compliment to my son.  At 15, I believe he &#8220;gets it&#8221;.  But I will be on guard for the next few years knowing that the enemy will be looking for opportunities.  Amen.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/11/question-of-the-day-23/#comment-157</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 00:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alex, your comments are a reflection of your heart and your core values. I know that you are a dad who shows unconditional love to your son and have done a great job of raising a next generation go-giver.  I also know how you have served the community in need and invested in the potential of those individuals. Thank you for taking the time to contribute to this question.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex, your comments are a reflection of your heart and your core values. I know that you are a dad who shows unconditional love to your son and have done a great job of raising a next generation go-giver.  I also know how you have served the community in need and invested in the potential of those individuals. Thank you for taking the time to contribute to this question.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Alex Stevens</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/11/question-of-the-day-23/#comment-154</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alex Stevens]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 16:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t believe that this is taking advantage of those in need and I&#039;ll use this analogy.  When my son was learning how to walk, at first he would fall down, bump his knee and start to cry with his hands held out for me to pick him up.  I&#039;d help him back up to his feet and he&#039;d fall down again even sometimes bumping his head.  Of course the crying would become louder but I&#039;d wipe off the bump, kiss it and start over again.  Eventually he learned how to walk and then to run.  Now when he fell down, if out of love I was to have picked him up and carried him for the next 18 years, would that have been the right thing to do?  Is this what I&#039;m called to do as a Christian practicing unconditional love?  I believe that it would have been a disservice to him had I done that.

Granted, some children will never learn how to walk due to a variety of developmental issues and they will need our help over the long haul.  But those children are usually the one&#039;s that want the least amount of help and want to do it for themselves.

I know that this is a simple analogy and I don&#039;t mean to demean those in need by comparing them to children.  But we are all children of God, right?  

In our efforts to provide for those in need, I feel we should not create an environment of entitlement without the expectation that self-sufficiency is the ultimate goal.  I also feel that basic needs must be met in order to achieve that goal.  How can you expect a child to do well in school and break the cycle of poverty without a well nourished, balanced diet and a safe place to live?

Yes, we are called to love unconditionally.  But sometimes to give unconditionally is not the proper way to love unconditionally.  We are taking advantage if we don&#039;t have expectations.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t believe that this is taking advantage of those in need and I&#8217;ll use this analogy.  When my son was learning how to walk, at first he would fall down, bump his knee and start to cry with his hands held out for me to pick him up.  I&#8217;d help him back up to his feet and he&#8217;d fall down again even sometimes bumping his head.  Of course the crying would become louder but I&#8217;d wipe off the bump, kiss it and start over again.  Eventually he learned how to walk and then to run.  Now when he fell down, if out of love I was to have picked him up and carried him for the next 18 years, would that have been the right thing to do?  Is this what I&#8217;m called to do as a Christian practicing unconditional love?  I believe that it would have been a disservice to him had I done that.</p>
<p>Granted, some children will never learn how to walk due to a variety of developmental issues and they will need our help over the long haul.  But those children are usually the one&#8217;s that want the least amount of help and want to do it for themselves.</p>
<p>I know that this is a simple analogy and I don&#8217;t mean to demean those in need by comparing them to children.  But we are all children of God, right?  </p>
<p>In our efforts to provide for those in need, I feel we should not create an environment of entitlement without the expectation that self-sufficiency is the ultimate goal.  I also feel that basic needs must be met in order to achieve that goal.  How can you expect a child to do well in school and break the cycle of poverty without a well nourished, balanced diet and a safe place to live?</p>
<p>Yes, we are called to love unconditionally.  But sometimes to give unconditionally is not the proper way to love unconditionally.  We are taking advantage if we don&#8217;t have expectations.</p>
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		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/10/question-of-the-day-22/#comment-149</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 01:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love and completely agree with your comments. Don&#039;t we all want to see the underdog succeed and don&#039;t we all want to feel the buz of knowing we did just a little something, to help them get there. That sure sounds like adding value to others, no wrong motive there.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love and completely agree with your comments. Don&#8217;t we all want to see the underdog succeed and don&#8217;t we all want to feel the buz of knowing we did just a little something, to help them get there. That sure sounds like adding value to others, no wrong motive there.</p>
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		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/10/question-of-the-day-22/#comment-148</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alex Stevens]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 01:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m not sure generosity is always the motivating factor.  Perhaps we see ourselves in the struggle over our own weaknesses and that inspires us to root for them.  Isn&#039;t there a little bit of underdog in everyone?  Very self driven I know, but natural nonetheless.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure generosity is always the motivating factor.  Perhaps we see ourselves in the struggle over our own weaknesses and that inspires us to root for them.  Isn&#8217;t there a little bit of underdog in everyone?  Very self driven I know, but natural nonetheless.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Leo Abdella</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/09/question-of-the-day-21/#comment-138</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 03:14:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Generosity is a character trait of an individual and as the public voting for our representatives on a local and national basis, it seems like it should be a topic of discussion.  The press does not hesitate to ask candidates about same sex marriage or abortion, which gets to a core level of an individuals beliefs.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Generosity is a character trait of an individual and as the public voting for our representatives on a local and national basis, it seems like it should be a topic of discussion.  The press does not hesitate to ask candidates about same sex marriage or abortion, which gets to a core level of an individuals beliefs.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Question of the Day by Milton Hearing</title>
		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/09/question-of-the-day-21/#comment-135</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Milton Hearing]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2011 14:27:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leo,,

Are you serious? The media will trash such a person, look at Perry, Palin...the only have not attacked Cain yet. In a better world they win by huge margins]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leo,,</p>
<p>Are you serious? The media will trash such a person, look at Perry, Palin&#8230;the only have not attacked Cain yet. In a better world they win by huge margins</p>
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		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/04/question-of-the-day-17/#comment-122</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 01:41:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we have faith in God, we have faith in His plan and purpose for our lives. We also are much quicker to accept that our plans may not be consistent with His plan. God&#039;s love for us will always have our best interest close to His heart.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we have faith in God, we have faith in His plan and purpose for our lives. We also are much quicker to accept that our plans may not be consistent with His plan. God&#8217;s love for us will always have our best interest close to His heart.</p>
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		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/05/question-of-the-day-18/#comment-121</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leo Abdella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 01:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The use of incentives to inspire people that you lead and care about are investments into their success. Leaders can&#039;t lead unless they love first.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The use of incentives to inspire people that you lead and care about are investments into their success. Leaders can&#8217;t lead unless they love first.</p>
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		<link>http://leoabdella.com/2011/10/04/question-of-the-day-17/#comment-120</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Iraida Loehrig]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 20:03:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alex, so true.  Our Father is in control and praise God!  Life is so much easier when we focus in on others and we allow for Him to do the work in us.  He will appoint us to positions we never would have ever thought of doing and think &quot;we did it&quot;.  Inspiration by His Word is truly the life worth living.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex, so true.  Our Father is in control and praise God!  Life is so much easier when we focus in on others and we allow for Him to do the work in us.  He will appoint us to positions we never would have ever thought of doing and think &#8220;we did it&#8221;.  Inspiration by His Word is truly the life worth living.</p>
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